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You know that sinking feeling when you've asked your child to do something simple... for the fourth time... and they're looking at you like you're speaking a foreign language?
Or when you catch yourself raising your voice again, even though you swore you wouldn't, because nothing else seems to get through?
Here's what I want you to know: You're not doing anything wrong.
Your child isn't being defiant or lazy. And you're not a bad parent.
The truth is, traditional parenting advice wasn't designed for the ADHD brain. It's like trying to use a Windows manual to fix a Mac – the operating system is completely different.
But when you understand how your child's brain actually works... when you speak their "language"... everything changes.
Here's what you'll discover in this course:
Laser-focused instruction that cuts through mental fog and gets instant cooperation (no more repeating yourself endlessly)
The emotion-first approach that stops meltdowns before they start by calming your child's nervous system
The choice trick that ends power struggles by making your child feel in control (even when you're guiding the outcome)
The praise formula that actually motivates ADHD kids (hint: timing is everything)
The tone shift that signals safety to your child's brain and helps them regulate their emotions
These aren't just theories from a textbook. They're battle-tested strategies that work with your child's unique wiring, not against it.
By tomorrow morning, you could be using these scripts during your usual routines... and watching your child respond in ways that will honestly surprise you.
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Why Everything You've Tried
Feels Like It's Making Things Worse
If you've ever walked away from another "conversation" with your ADHD child feeling like you just made everything worse... I get it.
You tried being patient. You tried explaining the "why" behind your request. You tried consequences. You maybe even tried bribing them with screen time.
And somehow, you're both more frustrated than when you started.
Here's what's really happening (and why it's not your fault):
You're speaking "neurotypical" to an ADHD brain.
It's like trying to have a conversation in English with someone who only speaks French. No matter how loud you get or how many times you repeat yourself, the message just isn't getting through.
Sound painfully familiar?
You give what seems like a simple instruction, but your child stares at you blankly or melts down
Morning routines turn into daily battles, even though you've done the same thing a thousand times
You find yourself repeating "Put on your shoes" while they're still stuck on "brush your teeth"
The more you explain your reasoning, the more they seem to shut down or explode
You end up yelling, feel terrible about it, but don't know what else to do
Your child seems defiant in the moment, then later says "I'm sorry" like they genuinely didn't mean to upset you
You and your partner try different approaches and get wildly different results
Why Traditional Parent Advice Doesn't Seem To Work:
Traditional parenting advice was designed for brains that work completely differently than your child's.
When you tell an ADHD brain to "get ready for school," here's what's actually happening inside their head:
Their working memory (which can only hold 2-3 pieces of information instead of the typical 4-5) immediately gets overloaded.
Their executive function system, which is already running behind, can't organize all those steps.
And their reward system, which needs immediate feedback to stay motivated, checks out because "getting ready" feels too abstract and far away.
Meanwhile, if there's any emotion in your voice – even just urgency – their amygdala hits the panic button and floods their system with stress hormones.
No wonder they "don't listen."
Their brain literally can't process what you're asking in the way you're asking it.
But here's the good news: Once you understand how to communicate in their brain's "language," everything shifts.
The meltdowns decrease. The cooperation increases. And that connection you've been desperately trying to rebuild?
It starts happening naturally.
The Communication Breakthrough That Changes Everything
What if I told you there's a way to get your ADHD child to cooperate... without bribing, threatening, or raising your voice?
What if those daily battles could become moments of calm connection instead?
And what if you could make this shift starting with your very next conversation?
Introducing The ADHD Parent Communication Tool-Kit
This isn't another parenting course filled with theory you'll never remember when your child is melting down in the cereal aisle.
This is a brain-based communication system that gives you the exact words to say in those tough moments – words that work WITH your child's ADHD brain instead of against it.
Here's what makes this different:
Instead of trying to change your child, you'll learn to speak their brain's "native language."
The same child who seems to ignore you when you say "Get ready for school" will spring into action when you use the right 5-word phrase that their working memory can actually handle.
Plug-and-play scripts you can use today (no memorizing complicated techniques)
Micro-skills that take seconds to implement but create lasting change
Real-world troubleshooting for when things don't go as planned
What it actually does for your family:
Turns your words into a calming force instead of a stress trigger
Helps your child's brain stay regulated so they can actually think clearly
Builds genuine motivation (not compliance based on fear)
Reduces those exhausting power struggles by 80% or more
Why this works when everything else hasn't
This system is built on neuroscience, not wishful thinking.
Every script respects how ADHD brains actually process information. Every technique works with your child's nervous system to create safety first, cooperation second.
When you validate emotions before giving directions, you're literally deactivating their amygdala so their thinking brain can come back online.
When you offer two good choices instead of demands, you're reducing their brain's natural resistance while still guiding them toward what needs to happen.
When you use specific, immediate praise, you're activating the exact dopamine pathways that motivate ADHD brains to repeat positive behaviors.
This was created by someone who truly gets it:
Mila Teshler, MS, OTR/L, has spent 23+ years working with ADHD kids and their families as a pediatric occupational therapist and Brain Health Coach. She's seen what works in real homes with real families – not just in research labs.
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The ADHD Parent
Communication Toolkit
The 5 Brain-Based Communication Scripts
The exact words that get ADHD kids to cooperate (without the drama)
Get the plug-and-play scripts you can use immediately in your toughest moments – morning routines, homework battles, sibling conflicts, and bedtime chaos.
Each script is designed to work with your child's unique brain wiring, so you'll see cooperation instead of meltdowns starting with your very first conversation.
The Emergency De-Escalation Toolkit
What to say when everything's already falling apart
Sometimes you need to rescue a situation that's already gone sideways. This toolkit gives you the exact phrases to calm an activated nervous system and get back to connection – even when your child is in full meltdown mode.
These are the words that work when nothing else will.
The Quick Reference Guide
Your go-to cheat sheet for high-pressure moments
A simple, printable guide you can keep on your phone or stick to your fridge with the most powerful scripts organized by situation.
When you're stressed and can't remember what to say, this becomes your lifeline to staying calm and effective.
THE OLD WAY
That's Been Exhausting You
(And Why It Backfires)
You give detailed explanations hoping they'll "get it"
"Honey, we need to leave in 10 minutes, so you need to brush your teeth, get your backpack, put on your shoes, and grab your lunch from the kitchen because we can't be late again today..."
Result: Their brain hits overload at "brush your teeth" and shuts down everything after that.
You try to reason with them in the heat of the moment.
When they're melting down about homework, you explain why education is important and how this will help their future...
Result: Their amygdala is in fight-or-flight mode. Logic literally cannot get through. Your reasoning actually makes them more dysregulated.
You rely on consequences that will happen "later"
"If you don't clean your room today, no video games this weekend." But Friday feels like a year away to an ADHD brain.
Result: Tomorrow looks exactly like today because their dopamine system needs immediate feedback, not delayed rewards.
You end up feeling like the "bad guy"
Your child seems defiant and oppositional. You raise your voice. Everyone feels terrible. Connection suffers. You question if you're cut out for this.
Result: You're both stuck in a cycle where every interaction feels like a battle waiting to happen.
THE NEW WAY
That Actually Works (And Why Your Child Will Respond)
You'll speak in their brain's "language"
Using a specific word-count formula that respects working memory limits, you'll give directions your child can actually process and complete.
Result: They succeed on the first try instead of looking confused or overwhelmed.
You'll calm their nervous system BEFORE giving directions
There's a simple validation technique that deactivates their amygdala in seconds, opening up their thinking brain for cooperation.
Result: Meltdowns get shorter and less frequent. Problem-solving becomes possible.
You'll eliminate power struggles with strategic choices
A specific choice framework makes your child feel in control while still guiding them toward what needs to happen.
Result: They cooperate willingly instead of fighting you every step of the way.
You'll activate their motivation system the right way
Using precise timing and specific language patterns, you'll trigger the dopamine pathways that make ADHD brains want to repeat good behaviors.
Result: They start doing things without being asked (yes, really).
You'll become their regulation anchor
Simple vocal techniques that signal safety to their nervous system, helping them stay calm even in stressful moments.
Result: Your presence becomes calming instead of triggering. Connection strengthens naturally.
The transformation you'll see: Mornings that flow. Homework that starts without drama. Bedtime that's actually peaceful. And a child who responds to you with cooperation instead of resistance.
What Other Parents Have To Say About Working With Us...
I came across KidLink Therapy’s ADHD parenting course at an incredibly stressful time for my family. My child was having a hard time emotionally and behaviorally and wherever I looked for help I was getting suggestions that didn’t feel right for my family. I truly felt alone, trying to advocate for my son and myself. I was willing to try anything, and while I was skeptical that coaching could help the situation I was in, my coaching session became a crutch for me every week. The lectures were science based and full of ideas, the coaching sessions allowed adequate time for one on one discussions as well as learning from other’s situations, but most importantly Mila was in my corner from the moment she had her first conversation with me. Mila has a talent for seeing a child’s strength in any behavior they’re exhibiting and helps you understand your child in a new way. She genuinely cares about the families she is helping and she helps with strategies to set a family up for success. This course was comprehensive, covering a range of topics with useful information to gather each week. I would highly recommend Mila’s course.
We are beyond grateful for Mila Teshler and her incredible coaching program! Her expertise, compassion, and dedication have made a huge difference in our daughter’s journey with ADHD. From the very start, she took the time to understand our family’s unique challenges and provided us with practical, personalized strategies that truly worked. Through this journey, we, as parents, have gained a much deeper understanding of our daughter’s behavior—what drives her struggles, how she experiences the world, and how we can better support her. The coaching sessions were more than just lessons; they were a source of inspiration, giving us the confidence to navigate daily challenges with patience, empathy, and the right tools. They helped us shift our perspective, turning frustration into understanding and stress into meaningful connection. Thanks to Mila, we have seen remarkable progress—not only in our daughter’s focus and confidence but also in how we, as parents, support her needs. Mila empowered us with tools and techniques that transformed daily struggles into manageable, even enjoyable, moments. Her encouragement and deep understanding made all the difference, turning what once felt overwhelming into a path of growth and success. Beyond her expertise, Mila is simply an incredible person. She is kind, patient, and deeply compassionate, making us feel truly heard and supported every step of the way. Her positive energy and unwavering dedication made every session a safe and uplifting space. She genuinely cares about the families she works with, and her passion for helping children thrive is evident in everything she does. If you’re looking for an ADHD expert who genuinely cares and delivers real results, we wholeheartedly recommend KidLink Therapy and Mila’s coaching program. She has given our family hope, confidence, and a brighter future!
Our family had an incredible experience with the 12-week ADHD coaching program with Mila Teshler. From the very beginning, we felt supported and understood. Our 10-year-old son, who has ADHD, was struggling with focus, emotional regulation, and daily routines. Through the coaching process, we gained practical strategies that helped him build independence, manage challenges, and improve his confidence. One of the most valuable aspects of the program was how it involved our entire family. We learned new ways to communicate, set realistic expectations, and create a structured environment that works for our son. Mila provided personalized guidance, breaking down complex concepts into manageable steps that we could easily integrate into our daily lives. Over the 12 weeks, we saw noticeable improvements—not just in our son’s ability to focus and regulate his emotions, but also in our own ability to support him. Our son felt empowered, and we, as parents, felt reassured that we were on the right path. ADHD could create big challenges for the whole family but with Mila ‘s support we gained confidence! We are beyond grateful for this experience and highly recommend Mila to any family navigating ADHD challenges. This program has truly made a lasting difference in our lives!
I appreciate everything that Mila has done for our family. We are particularly grateful for how Mila helped my husband and I develop a new understanding of how our son “works.” We both feel our new knowledge and perspective is helping us parent him in a better way.
Meet Your Coach
Mila Teshler, MS, OTR/L
Founder KidLink Therapy PC;
Occupational Therapist and Parent Coach;
Performance Enhancement Specialist
Mila Teshler is the Founder and Clinic Director of KidLink Therapy PC, established in 2014, and a highly experienced pediatric occupational therapist with over 23 years of dedicated practice.
Recognized for her expertise in sensory processing, neurobiology, ADHD, and post-concussion care, Mila blends deep clinical knowledge with an empathetic, result driven family-centered approach
A Brain Health Coach certified by the Amen Academy, Mila is passionate about supporting children’s neurological development and emotional regulation.
She is the creator of NeuroTune™, a unique program combining neurofeedback, parent coaching, and movement-based interventions, as well as parent courses, designed to equip families with tools for long-term success.
Mila’s work extends far beyond the clinic walls. She is an active presenter in the community, delivering workshops to parents, educators, and healthcare providers on topics such as sensory regulation, ADHD, and brain-based learning.
She collaborates with schools, educators, and families to create supportive learning environments and practical strategies for student success. As an practical educator for occupational therapy professionals, she has delivered numerous professional webinars and training sessions, empowering fellow therapists with evidence-based tools and techniques.
Mila is also the author of Harnessing the Hidden Gifts, a resource she offers free to families seeking to better understand and support their neurodiverse children’s strengths.
Her expertise has led to recent speaking engagements at the Massachusetts & Rhode Island Occupational Therapy Associations and the Gifted Education Conference, where she presented on neuro-based approaches to ADHD and self-regulation.
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Try the entire course for 30 full days. Use the scripts during your morning routine, homework time, bedtime – wherever you're struggling most.
If you don't see your child responding with more cooperation and fewer meltdowns... if these techniques don't make your daily interactions calmer and more connected... just let me know.
I'll refund every penny. No questions asked. No hassles.
But here's what I really believe will happen: Within the first week, you'll have at least one moment where you think, "Holy cow, that actually worked!" And by day 30, you'll wonder how you ever parented without these tools.
That's how sure I am that when you speak your ADHD child's brain language, everything changes.
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frequently asked questions
Will this work if my child is really defiant/explosive/strong-willed?
The more intense your child's reactions, the more their nervous system needs what these scripts provide. I've seen the biggest transformations happen with kids who seemed "impossible" – because once you start speaking their brain's language, that "defiance" often melts into cooperation.
What age children will this training help with?
These scripts work for any child with ADHD brain wiring, typically ages 4-16. The core techniques stay the same – you might just adjust your vocabulary slightly for younger kids or add more choices for teens who need extra autonomy.
I've tried so many things already. How is this different?
Most parenting advice assumes a neurotypical brain. This system was built specifically for how ADHD brains process information, regulate emotions, and stay motivated. It's like the difference between using the right key versus trying to force the wrong one.
How long before I see changes?
Many parents notice a shift within the first few conversations. Your child's nervous system responds immediately to the calmer communication style, even if behavioral changes take a bit longer to solidify.
What kind of support will I get? What if I have questions?
When you enroll in the program, you'll also get access to our online ADHD Parenting Community absolutely free where you can ask questions and get support.
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The 5 Brain-Based Communication Scripts
The exact words that get ADHD kids to cooperate (without the drama)
Get the plug-and-play scripts you can use immediately in your toughest moments – morning routines, homework battles, sibling conflicts, and bedtime chaos.
Each script is designed to work with your child's unique brain wiring, so you'll see cooperation instead of meltdowns starting with your very first conversation.
The Emergency De-Escalation Toolkit
What to say when everything's already falling apart
Sometimes you need to rescue a situation that's already gone sideways. This toolkit gives you the exact phrases to calm an activated nervous system and get back to connection – even when your child is in full meltdown mode.
These are the words that work when nothing else will.
The Quick Reference Guide
Your go-to cheat sheet for high-pressure moments
A simple, printable guide you can keep on your phone or stick to your fridge with the most powerful scripts organized by situation.
When you're stressed and can't remember what to say, this becomes your lifeline to staying calm and effective.
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